The time has come for Dad to go for another CT Scan. Silently, we pray for positive results. Dad has been doing well. Keeping himself healthy by exercising every morning, weather permitted and also eating well. He eats 7 small meals a day due to his insulin injection and to keep the blood sugar reading under control. One oat drink before setting out for his morning walk, a bowl of noodles after his walk and snacking on some biscuits/bread at mid morning; lunch, tea, dinner and supper. So far so good that his endocrinologist fully supports his diet.
On 22nd June, mom and I accompanied dad to the hospital. He is now familiar with the procedure that he is fully at ease with it. I’m glad. The results were out in the afternoon. We eagerly proceeded to the Oncologist’s room. We are most pleased to hear that the tumour size has reduced so do the lesions in the lungs. These are the two critical areas.
Dr Mellor informed that should we wish to consider surgery to remove the tumour, we can do so now that it has shrunk to about 2 cm. I asked if dad would still need to take his Glivec post surgery….and he said most likely because there are areas still with lesions present, especially the liver. We may have to continue with Glivec to keep the others under control. Dad declined the idea as he still needs to consume Glivec. Dad is confident that the tumour will further reduce in size with Glivec. Dr Mellor agreed with him based on his age and overall health condition. Dr Mellor is happy with the scan results. Words can’t describe my joy upon hearing the news. I thank God for His blessings and watching over my dad.
The visit to the Endocrinologist was a good one too. Dr Chan was very happy with dad’s blood sugar control. She voiced a little concern over a couple of low readings. Dad’s insulin injection in the morning shall remain but with at a reduced dosage and taking the same prescribed tablet after dinner. Blood test result was excellent.
This is another successful visit to the hospital. I feel so light and happy to know that dad’s progressing well. I can see on the faces of my parents that they are glad that their hard work paid off. I know it isn’t easy to keep our heads held high despite fears, worries and concerns in our mind. Bravo, dad and mom!
The following visit shall be in 3 months’ time, merely consultation. Dr Mellor doesn’t like to repeat CT Scan in a short span of time to avoid over-exposure to radiation. It is not good for anybody more so for a weaker body.
Dad has been on Glivec for almost a year. Looking back, this one year has been most eventful, with the first 5 months being the scariest of all. It was emotionally draining too. I can’t imagine how mom went through it everyday as the primary caregiver. I can only imagine dad’s fear in facing such situation while trying to protect his loved ones from worrying more. I guess it took a toll on mom when mom was admitted for suspected heart attack, 3 months after dad’s diagnosis She went through tests after tests. Relieved washed over us when we were told she is OK. She was prescribed with smaller dosage of aspirin as a preventive measure. Her condition will be monitored by the local hospital.
I feel that having a family member contracting cancer is the last thing one would expect to happen. It is the worst news for anyone. The first few things that cross people’s minds would be the pain, course of treatments and financials. Thinking back, while I was sad upon hearing the diagnosis from the Dr, I had to keep a brave front for my parents and brothers. Armed with positive mindset I tried to instil the same optimism to both of them especially mom, who is a worrywart. I preached about team work, emphasising that it is treatable, there is always hope. The battle is dad’s but we must stand by him to cheer him on. Mom has to watch over his food too. I read up books on cancer survivors and about GISTs. I opened a medical file and add a health journal on this blog.
Created support group within the family, I roped in my younger brother to spend more time with them and to watch for any sign of small ailments, whatsoever. I am most grateful to him and my sis-in-law for being around my parents. Thanks to the twins (brothers) who will speak to them from afar once in a while. With most children living separately and distant away, it is important to keep in touch to let them know they’re thought of and also to let them listen to our voices. My parents are most understanding when we can’t meet as often as we wanted to.
I can say now that we had gone through the worst together. Nonetheless, we still need to continue doing the right thing…i.e. daily exercise, eating well, positive thinking and enjoy life. Life is short. Let us live our daily lives the way it should be..happy, contented and meaningful.
Thank you my friends, for your prayers and wishes for my dad.